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Is it permissible to continue speaking with a young man—even briefly and normally—after ending an unlawful relationship with the intention of repentance?

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Emotional relationships between young men and women who are not mahram are forbidden, even if they do not lead to fornication, because they are a means to temptation (fitna) and corruption.

One must repent from such a relationship and completely sever it. There should be no communication between the two parties except for a necessary need, while observing the Shariah-compliant controls.

Marriage is the only legitimate way for a relationship between you. If it is facilitated, then that is excellent; otherwise, each should go their own way.

It is advised to remain steadfast, seek beneficial knowledge, perform righteous deeds, and keep good company.

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