Is it permissible to speak with non-Muslim women in public places with the intention of finding a wife and presenting Islam to them, so that if she embraces Islam, he marries her, and if not, he leaves her?
Those seeking marriage and chastity are advised to supplicate and humbly pray to Allah for success, including the supplication: "Our Lord, grant us from our spouses and our offspring comfort to our eyes, and make us leaders for the righteous." It is permissible to seek assistance from trustworthy individuals in finding a wife, and this is not considered blameworthy asking of people. One must lower the gaze from non-mahram women, and the desire for marriage does not justify letting one's gaze roam freely or speaking without restraint. It is permissible for a suitor to look at the face and hands of the woman he intends to propose to, if he is serious about it. Speaking to a non-mahram woman is permissible when there is a need and within its limits. There is no harm in marrying a chaste woman from the People of the Book, or a disbelieving woman if she embraces Islam, but marrying a woman from the People of the Book is not without its reservations. Attention is drawn to the danger of residing in lands of disbelief unless there is a necessity or a dire need.
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