Is it permissible for a student of knowledge, a حافظ القرآن (one who has memorized the Qur'an), who is seeking a wife combining piety and beauty, to look with the intention of proposing at veiled, modest women (aged 19-23) in public places, while adhering to specific controls such as limiting the gaze to the face and hands, looking without lust, not prolonging the gaze, not putting himself in suspicious situations, and ceasing to look once he finds the one he is seeking, then inquiring about her family and religious commitment, knowing his ability to control himself and avoid impermissible acts?
It is not permissible to intentionally look at non-mahram women with the intention of marriage. However, it is permissible to intentionally look at a woman whom you have decided to propose to and hope for her acceptance, provided that you predominantly believe she will accept your marriage proposal. If you know that she or her guardian will not agree, then it is not permissible for you to look at her.
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