Was the questioner's divorce of his two wives, the first and the second, valid and effective, and was he forced into either of them? What is your advice to him after his aversion to marriage?

Divorce is disliked unless there is a necessity for it, and one should seek a woman of religion and good character when marrying. As for the wife who spoke with her boyfriend, you had the right to divorce her due to her insistence and her request for divorce. Regarding the second wife who left the house because she objected to your kindness towards your parents, it would have been possible to be patient with her and advise her, but what is done is done. We advise you not to be affected by these past experiences, as marriage is the tradition of the prophets and messengers. The divorce occurred by your will and choice, and it is legally binding.