Is it considered filial disobedience for a young man to marry a girl whom his father loved, even though the father borrows money and procrastinates in repayment, without the parents' consent?
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It is advisable to abandon this project and consider another girl, consulting with the parents.
If he marries this girl, the questioner and his parents will live displeased with him, knowing that the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, ordered Abdullah ibn Umar to divorce his wife whom he loved because his father was not pleased with her as a wife for him. The : "O Abdullah, divorce your wife" is authentic.
Furthermore, problems have already occurred between the questioner's family and the girl's family, and it is expected that these problems will increase if the marriage takes place, which will spoil his marital life and may lead to divorce.
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